When someone on the outside sees a relationship and thinks they are two different people and thinks they can never work, it's disheartening; they see one as solid and unmoving and the other as ever moving and changing.
How would that work? how can they sustain one another? Where do they find their commonality?
To me these relationship are like where the land meets the sea, both can be totally different yet where they connect can be the most beautiful place in the world.
Awareness of themselves and each other is key. If you know the woman you're with needs to flow free but her heartbeat is like that constant wave that beats on your shore then you cannot contain that or the love you always feel will slowly stop, you can always give it a place to rest.
As well as if the man you love who is your rock and change comes slowly, but happens nonetheless, if the waves continues to overwhelm the land, out of control, what is a beautiful connect and your safe harbor, will erroded and be no more.
Love is a powerful force of nature, but without balance even the strongest love will errode. And as with nature, love has its seasons, you just have to know how to make the best of each season your two hearts experience so year after year you can produce the most memorable moments and survive the harsh ones.
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